Wednesday, December 9, 2020

Parents, How Do You Treat Weakness!** Words From COVID 19 quarantine.




Parents, how do you treat weakness, in others? Enjoy the photo. Don’t know what my Mom was thinking dressing me like this, I think it came with a permanent placard on the back with the words “kick me” with a smiley face. I wasn’t a Trekky, however I was a regular watcher of Lost In Space, the cheesy mid-1960’s SciFi TV series. It was set in the year 1997, haha! The evil Dr. Smith was the cowardly villain, who was the reason they were actually “lost in space.” Smith, the unintentional stowaway, who was trapped with the victims whose mission he had intended to destroy, was constantly trying to save his own skin at the expense and danger of the Robinson family, “the first family in space.” The Robinson family always forgave the perpetual antagonist. The son, Will Robinson, actually liked and trusted Smith, though Smith’s actions never proved worthy of anyone’s admiration or trust. Crew members, The Robot and Major Don West, never trusted Smith, but tolerated him in deference to the Robinson's grace toward him. The Robot often warned “Danger Will Robinson,” as he flailed his dryer hose arms with hooked-pincher-hands when Dr. Smith was leading him into hazardous situations. As I see it, we all have a choice, we can exploit the weaknesses of others like Dr. Smith, trying to somehow gain the upper hand, taking advantage of those around us, or we can believe the best about others, being gentle with their weakness, giving them the benefit of the doubt. I prefer a story like the Grinch, in which the good-hearted Whos of Whoville, changed the character of the oft abused and then abusive Grinch. His heart grew three sizes in one day. But Dr. Smith, unlike the Grinch, seemed to never change, always manipulating the situation to his benefit and preying upon the presumed weaknesses of his ship-wrecked colleagues. The good news is he couldn’t change the goodness of the Robinsons either, they always chose to believe Smith was doing the best he could do and chose to give grace.

Gentleness toward weakness, it’s what makes Jesus followers different from the rest of the world. The world sees weakness and exploits it, Christ and those who are connected with Him see weakness and they protect it, handle it with care and are gentle toward the ones who are weak. James, the half-brother of Jesus, reminds the early church and us, that God’s people deal with other’s weaknesses differently than other earthlings. He says, ”Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. Such "wisdom" does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.” James 3:13-16 (NIV) In the midst of our seemingly mounting challenges of COVID, will we succumb to fear and the “survival of the fittest” mentality preying on the weaknesses of others, taking advantage of them for our own gain as worldly “wisdom” mandates? Or will we surrender to love, see the weakness of others, have compassion for them, protect them, and give grace as Jesus does? We can be kind to those who are unkind without letting them influence us toward their "wisdom." Who knows maybe their hearts will grow three sizes in one day or at least wonder the Reason for our acting differently than the rest of the planet. You can be like Will Robinson or Dr. Smith... choose wisely.
Hang in there people! God is with us! I’m praying for us all!